Overcoming The First Date Jitters


First date jitters can be a problem for a lot of people. Whether it’s a serious relationship you’re looking for or just good old fashioned sex, it’s still something we all have to deal with. Fear not, though, I have a few tips on how one can overcome the first date jitters that most have!

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Devoid Yourself From The First Date Jitters

Pay close attention to this list and do as I say because it does make a huge difference. I get the first date jitters every single time I go out on a date with a hot milf and you will too. You just need to know what to do to overcome them.

Tell Yourself
Step one is talking to yourself. So many of else tell ourselves that we can’t do things and what a shocker, we end up not being able to do things. If you want to overcome the fear, you’ve got to tell yourself that you can do it. Simple as that really! Just tell yourself in the mirror that you are going to have a great first date and maybe even bang this naughty mature milf you’re set to meet in a few hours.

Take Ownership
Another great way to get rid of the jitters is to take ownership of it. Be truthful with yourself and realize that you have the jitters. Don’t try and act like a badass and make it seem like you’re not nervous. Just own up to being nervous so you can get to the root of the issue and actually solve it.

This one is super important. The most successful people I know are focusers. They have the ability to focus on something and make so many things happen while doing so that it’s insane. You’ll want to find a way to focus on the upcoming date and things will be fine.

Be Real
This tip is more helpful during the date versus in preparation but it’s still important. Don’t try and be fake. You must be real if you want to lose the jitters. Showing some hot milf something that you’re not is only going to make it more difficult for you in the future. You’ll constantly be digging yourself a hole taking that approach that you will eventually have to worry about having it cave in.

Keep It Fun
Don’t be uptight at all. Just keep things fun and you’ll be fine. The reason we go on dates is to have fun and get laid. Simple as that really. If you keep it fun you’ll have fun! Plain and simple!

I hope these tips help you and please don’t forget who shared them with you when you’re going deep in some hot milf! LOL

My First Tip for Dating Older Women


Great memories are often made by either really enjoying an experience together or by not enjoying it at all. This is what most men should keep in mind while they start planning for the much dreaded and for that reason, highly expected, first date. Behind really successful first dates is actually incredible creativity or incredible spontaneity or simplicity. Remember the goal of the first date; you must engage with your date in a meaningful conversation, getting to know them, showing that you are thoughtful and at the same time keeping it fun and casual, something that both parties might enjoy and not expect much out of it. But, if your plan is to impress the woman, then going for something unique is what you require.

Tip #1 – Be Spontaneous

For one of the above mentioned options, spontaneity, there is something rather unique that you can do. For example, take the day’s newspaper and see what band is playing in town that day or what show is on the theater. Don’t worry about who or what is playing, just get tickets and take your date. It could go either way, really; you would either have a great time and love what’s playing or you will hate it and remember the first date as something funny and memorable. Later, you can bond over the experience of the first date. And hey, if it goes bad, it gives you a chance to make up for it.

While keeping in mind spontaneity, you should remember that doing things that you have already done before might turn out to be not such a good experience. Talk to your date before the big day and ask about things that she hasn’t ever tried. Tango? Salsa classes? Cooking class? Think about what you haven’t done ever before and sign up for something like this for the first date. It’s a good experience where both of you will be equally inexperienced and will let your competitiveness and inhibitions down. It would also make for a really fun day doing something completely outrageous. It is a good bonding experience to do something with another person that is a new thing for the both you, and your older female date.  Who knows, you guys could end up making some of the best memories together.

The key to keeping it spontaneous is to be open to new experiences and new relationships, very much like your first date.