Tony, Author at MilfPlay.net

Dating an older woman can be stressful at times. Believe it or not, if you are younger, you may find yourself anxious when dating older hot women. It’s something that happens, but fear not, there are ways to overcome the anxiety and have a successful date night!

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Ways To Get Rid of Anxiety On A Date

These tips are clutch for reducing the anxiety that dating a hot milf can bring on. Read carefully and you’ll understand what I mean.

Relax On The Setup Call
The first step is to show that you’re relaxed on the call to set up your date. Sometimes the anxiety is all in your head and if you work hard enough try and overcome that feeling and force yourself to relax it can very well be the result. How do you relax on the call? That’s easy, make sure you take some time to plan on what you’re going to say and how you’re going to approach the hot milf on the other end of the call. Be sure to sound enthusiastic and happy about meeting up with her.

Be Prepared
Once you’re on your date, you’ve got to be prepared. Being prepared is by far one of the best ways to reduce anxiety. I can tell you that on most occasions where I’ve been unprepared are the times that I’ve been most anxious. the good news is that being prepared will not only show that you care but it will also reduce your anxiety and likely result in a better casual date. It’ll probably help you relieve yourself from those first date jitters.

Take The Lead
Taking the lead shows that you aren’t a sidelines type of guy. It also gives you something to focus on and take your mind off of your anxiety. I’ve spent a number of years dealing with being anxious and it wasn’t until I started taking the lead on dates that I finally started to calm down. I think it has something to do with being in control. Most of the mature women out there like to be in control. If you can gain the control then you’re going to be far less anxious.

These may seem like three simple things but I’m telling you the truth when I say that these things will help you get rid of anxiety that you might be having. When all else fails, you can try to have a couple of drinks to take the edge off but keep it under control. If you get too drunk, you’re not going to make a good impression, I guarantee it!

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Why I Love Having Horny Affairs With Milfs

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I love having affairs with milfs. Honestly, it’s my favorite thing to do in the world. There are so many many mature women that are looking to have horny affairs in almost every town. I’m going to basically give you every reason why I love meeting these cheating milfs that just love to fuck random guys.

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Reasons Why Horny Affairs With Mature Women Are Awesome

I love hooking up with milfs that are having affairs. They are by far the most fun to fuck. Here’s why…

Zero Fucks Given
Most of the milfs that I’ve met online that have husbands, don’t give a fuck about anything. They aren’t scared of getting caught or anything of that nature. They just want dick and they want it now. I can’t tell you how relieving that is to hear. I love a woman that likes to get wild and doesn’t care what anyone thinks, especially her husband.

They Don’t Get Too Personal
Horny mature women won’t waste your time with getting too personal and you shouldn’t waste there time either. The bottomline is that milfs prefer to not get too deep into their home lives on casual dates. This is perfect for both parties and makes for an easy date without worrying about information overload.

It’s All Business
Older women that are having affairs on dating sites know that it’s all business and they keep it that way. They tend to not waste time and they know the best ways to attract or seduce their date just enough to want to have sex, if that’s their ultimate goal. I love that about older horny women. Given that I’m typically younger than most of the women I date, it makes things much easier and makes the date smoother.

They Like Drinking
There’s nothing better then sipping a martini in a hotel room with some hot milf! I can’t think of anything else I’d rather be doing. In fact, this past weekend I met some dirty mom on Milfplay, took her to a fancy hotel, we ordered martinis and had them sent to the room. It was fucking awesome! Seriously, my weekend couldn’t have been better. Most milfs I know aren’t afraid to take back a couple martinis from time to time. I love it. In fact, every dinner date that I’ve been on with a milf has included some sort of drink. Most of the time it’s liquor.

It Never Goes Any Further
The most important reason I love having horny affairs with milfs is because it never ever goes any further than that. It’s just sex and that’s it. Wham, bam, and back to their house to play mom and hang out with their husband. That’s all the stuff I don’t want to have to deal with so it works out perfectly!

Well, if that’s not enough to convince to date a horny milf then I don’t know what to say to you. For those that are ambitious, go for it and get laid tonight!

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How To Find A Mature Woman To Start a Relationship

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Everyone has their own advice on dating a mature woman, but very few people tell you how to find someone that might be worth starting a relationship with or even just having sex with on the regular. Sure, you will have family and friends that might try to fix you up, but that’s hardly helpful when it comes to finding someone to start a casual relationship with. It’s usually more like them trying to make a match without considering that you may not be attracted to that person. Their idea of a person that is perfect for you might not be the same as yours.

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Using a casual milf dating site is a bit different. A lot of single people avoid commitment and would rather play the field. Some don’t even realize they are ready for a relationship until they find the right person. Your goal is to be the right person for any of the milfs that you meet online. The tricky part is showing them you are right for them. I try to do a few things right when I’m dating a milf. For starters, I always treat mature women amazing and I give them everything that they want. That goes for sex too!

The more you make yourself available to a mature woman who might seem like “relationship material”, the more likely you are to better connect with them. This means you should put yourself in situations where you will meet horny milfs you can see yourself spending a lot of time with. For instance, if you like to drink martinis, spend more time in a high-class bar. If you like to read, then head to a library or coffee shop. If you love music then go to more record stores, music festivals or local live performances. Local band shows that don’t have a huge crowd is a good choice because you will have room to look around and find single cougars you might be attracted to.

Once you have found yourself in the right place at the right time; you are in a better position to possibly meet someone. I should also mention that you’re especially in a good position if you’re using a dating site that connects mature women with younger men. Remember, those shitty mainstream dating sites are going to do anything for you. It’s also important to remember that you’re not looking for a relationship on the first date.

You’re looking to spend time with someone to see if you can picture spending a lot of time with them or at a minimum having sex with a mature woman on the regular. The situation might seem ideal at first because you have similar interests, but don’t be afraid to walk away if things start looking dismal. There are plenty of horny milfs out there looking for almost anything in a man and it’s important that you understand that. Whatever it is that you’re looking for, just stay focused and keep your eye on the mature woman you want to hook up with!

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Why Backpage Sucks For Dating Milfs

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If you’ve been in the online dating game for a long time like me then you know about Backpage. I’m here to share why it absolutely sucks for any type of dating. Here are a few of the main reasons why Backpage is the worst option for trying to hook up with some milf.

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Three Reasons Backpage Sucks

Here are three reasons I think Backpage is the worst dating option known to man…

Fake Ads
If you’ve ever browsed around on Backpage looking for a milf to hook up with then you’ve seen the ads. Do you think they are real? Well, I have a news flash for you. Backpage is filled with a shit ton of fake ads of women that literally don’t even exist. I’ve tried over a dozen of the ads on the site and they are completely fake. Most of the women don’t respond or they redirect to some shitty dating profile. It’s all fake there and I think I actually received only one email from one person I connected with. It wasn’t even a milf either. She was disgusting looking.

Legal Trouble
If you’re worried about getting into legal trouble, then I suggest you stay away from Backpage. Most of the ads are fake like I said and some can really lead to serious legal trouble. They may even be police officers posing as milfs trying to get you to agree to have sex with them for money. Backpage assumes no risk here and if you have any trouble with the site, then it’s assumed it’s on you, not them!

No Verification
Backpage doesn’t bother verifying any of the people posting ads on the site. That’s dangerous because you have no idea who you are connecting with. Instead, you’re taking a risk thinking that you may be meeting a sexy milf when in fact you’re meeting some stranger that might not even be who they say they are. If there’s no verification process then I suggest you avoid it!

These three reasons should be enough for you to want to avoid using Backpage. There are plenty of other sites out there to use to meet milfs looking to fuck. These sites have plenty of women on them waiting for someone to impress them enough to want to fuck. Don’t put yourself at risk using a site like this.

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Why Hiring An Escort Is A Horrible Idea

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If you’re thinking of hiring an escort because you’re looking to connect with a sexy mature woman to have sex, I’m going to stop you! There’s a reason why I never hire escorts to have sex with and I suggest you avoid them at all costs. Here are a few reasons why I suggest staying away from escorts and using a mature sex date service instead.

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Why Not To Hire An Escort

Here are a couple reasons you should avoid hiring an escort. Take my advice!

Legal Trouble
When you hire an escort, you’re putting yourself at serious legal risk. I mean real serious risk. Have you ever been to jail? If you haven’t then I suggest you not hire an escort. They’ve been known to be trouble and can often times lead to getting arrested if you hire the wrong woman. If you’ve seen police TV shows then you know what I’m talking about. Using a website that’s dedicated to dating is going to instead connect you with someone that wants to fuck and it’s a much better way to avoid getting arrested.

Too Expensive
Escorts aren’t cheap, especially those that are more mature. Once you start trying to hire milfs to fuck you, then you’re getting into a payment scale that you’re wallet isn’t going to like one bit. Save your money for a real date or drinks with a woman that just wants a good dicking.

Unsafe
Hiring an escort is really unsafe. I mean, extremely unsafe. Every time you hire an escort, you’re putting yourself at risk. Some working girls aren’t as friendly as they may seem and they will do almost anything they need to in order to get your money. Not too mention, these escorts are not screened. Now, when you join a dating site, most of these members are verified. It’s much safer versus meeting up with someone that you’ll never ever truly know about.

Not That Good
Having sex with an escort isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Some of these women, especially those that are more experienced, don’t care about giving you the best sexual experience. They only care about the money. That’s why I’ve chosen to connect with milfs and other mature women on MilfPlay because unlike hiring a woman, these women are genuinely interested in meeting people to have sex with and for no money too.

I hope I’ve just saved you some money and headaches by sharing why I don’t hire escorts. I’d suggest you not hire them too.

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How To Last Longer In Bed

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If you’re dating a milf or any mature woman, then you have no other choice but to understand how to last longer in bed. A lot of men fear pre-ejaculation and their overall performance in bed. They often feel under confident, especially when it comes to lasting longer in bed and having a decent sized penis. While you cannot do anything about your natural size, you can improve your timing in the bed. I know, it’s a subject that doesn’t get talked about all that frequently but one that I feel is a must to discuss when it comes to dating older women.

Once you learn how to control yourself in the bed, size won’t ever matter again. Trust me when I say it is more important to learn how to control your ejaculation and last longer than having a big unit.

Sex can be great for both you and the smoking hot milf that you’re banging if you can delay ejaculating. Learning how to control yourself in bed is great for both of you. Guys who find it hard to keep from coming early are usually unable to satisfy their partners. This results in less sex appeal from the opposite sex. That goes double for mature women.

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Here’s Now To Last Longer In Bed With A Hot Milf

Remember, women need more time to reach orgasm than men. If you have trouble keeping up with your woman, try the following tips to last longer in bed.

Change Your Diet

Did you know that a guy on a vegetarian diet has more chances of lasting longer in bed than other guys who are not on the diet? Your diet plays an important part in making you last a bit longer in bed.

If you are having trouble, try going for a “vegetables only” diet. People on the diet are known to focus more intake of fruit content that provides more stable energy than any other food type. Eating fruit and vegetables mean that your body will be consistently taking energy from them while giving you the much-needed boost. Stay away from any kind of food that gets digested easily and doesn’t offer a sustainable energy source. That means candy bars and other junk food. That stuff is absolute shit for your body and does nothing to help you. I also recommend that you workout a lot!

Natural Supplements

There are tons of natural supplements available that can help you better control your ejaculation. You can also try Viagra, which is known to help men last longer in bed if you really have a bad problem with E.D. as well. I suggest sticking with the diet change first before jumping into any supplement usage.

Practice

Last but not the least, practice…a lot. If you find a hot mature woman that is willing to help out, try practicing by having sex every single night just to try and learn to control your time. If you do not have a partner, a good idea would be to masturbate using adult sex toys to control your time. This may sound funny but it actually works pretty good.

Well, those are my tips for trying to last longer in bed. It should be pretty easy for you to control your orgasms after about a week or two.

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How To Dress To Get More Women To Notice You

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How you dress and what you wear in your dating profile does matter. It may not seem like it matters much but I promise you that it does. If you want to attract more women then you need to know exactly how to dress in order to do so. That’s right. You’ve got to avoid some common mistakes if you want to be successful when it comes to dating.

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How To Dress To Get More Women To Notice You

Here’s how to dress and what to avoid wearing if you want to get noticed in your dating profile.

Don’t Wear A Suit

I don’t want you heading to the dry cleaners to get your suit dry cleaned. Save your money! According to Askmen, “22% of men wear suits in their Tinder profiles.” That’s absolutely ridiculous given that it’s a dating website. You’re not going on a job interview, just trying to find someone to hookup with. Don’t be a douchebag, lose the damn suit!

Don’t Wear Neutral Colors

Neutral colors are great in concept but wearing neutral colors isn’t going to help you stand out. According to a recent study, “73% of men wear neutral colors in their profile pictures.” Do you think this helps or hurts you? Well, notice how more people that go against the grain get noticed more? That’s because they do. I’d suggest that you stay away from neutral colors.

Lose The Blue Shirt

I had a blue shirt that I loved. It was a button down shirt and I would wear it almost weekly. Guess what, every time I wore it I never met women. That’s because it’s so fucking typical that women just pay no mind to guys dressing like this. Posting a photo of you wearing a typical blue button down shirt isn’t going to get you laid, ever. You need to through some color into the mix here and do something that’s a bit different.

Wear Accessories

Women notice guys with nice accessories. No, I’m not telling you to start wearing a bunch of jewelry. I’m telling you to simply start incorporating some high-quality accessories to your wardrobe. That goes especially if you’re trying to meet a milf. They will notice a nice expensive watch on your wrist. That’s all you need. Maybe some nice shoes as well.

That should put you in the right direction when it comes to dressing for dating online.

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What To Do After A Break up

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The reason we get back into the dating game most likely is because we break up with someone right? Of course it is. Either that of you plan on simply cheating on your partner and you just want to find someone to hookup with on the side. Anyway, if you’ve just ended a relationship, then there are certain steps to take.

A List Of Things To Do After A Break up

Here’s a list of things that you absolutely must do after you break up with someone. These things are not optional as far as I’m concerned.

Get Off Of Social Media
For starters, step the fuck back from Facebook and Twitter. I know you want to play stalker online through the social media channels but that’s not an option. Instead, you need to stay away from it all. No one gives a shit what you’re doing on social media and you shouldn’t care what they’re doing either. It just causes headaches if you’re focusing too much on what your ex is up to these days. Just back the heck off!

Erase The Number
This one is painful but you need to do it. You need to erase your ex’s number from your phone immediately. It allows you to detach from them for good. Don’t worry, if you ever get back together and you need the number you can come up with an excuse for losing it. For now, erase it. Out of sight, out of mind now!

Start Dating Again
This one is easy, you’ve got to start playing the field again. Get back out there and start dating immediately. I’m not saying to get setup either. I’m talking about you joining a dating site, putting yourself out there and going on dates with new people. Heck, you may even meet someone that just wants to fuck on the regular if you’re lucky!

Focus On Getting In Shape
Breakups are perfect reasons to focus on getting in the best shape of your life. It’s a chance to get in shape and start living again. There’s a number of reasons why you would want to get in shape but it’s about sparking that mind-body balance that makes a difference. Just go for a run, join a gym or do something every single day to physically better yourself. Who knows, you may even meet some horny fit milf at the gym that’s just looking to smash.

Doing all of this will allow you to start living again and that means that you’re going to finally start getting laid again! Enjoy and go get
’em tiger!

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Things To Text A Milf You Want To Bang

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So you have finally found a hot milf you really want to get to know and she has also given you her number. This is a clear indication that she’s somewhat interested in you and that the ball is in your court to text here. I’m going to share some tips with you that should help you determine what you should and should text a milf. It’s important that you take the right steps here to really keep things going in the right direction when you’re texting her.

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Tips On How To Text A Milf

Now the hard work is done, you’ve gotten her number but now what do you do next? It’s very simple, make her laugh or smile as much as you can over the text messages that you send. Doing so will give the hot milf more of a reason to so-called “fall for you” or even just want to have sex with you. Before you know it, you’ll be fucking her in a hotel room in no time. But let’s get down to brass tacks before we get ahead of ourselves here.

The key to winning any milf over is to text her funny things in moderation. But by funny things, don’t settle for pre-made pickup lines or text message examples that are already online. Copy-pasting these text messages is a no-go because there is a huge chance someone else has already messaged her that particular funny text before. If you send the same stupid line, you’re not getting laid. I can promise you that.

If you really want to score big with the hot milf you’re trying to bang, be original. You can alter the pre-made funny texts found all over the internet and give them a personal touch of your own. However, you should never use the same boring shit that’s all over the internet.

It is very important to keep her interested but also not show her that you are desperate. So whenever you are about to start a conversation with her, go for a funny text altered with your own personality and that should do the job. Trust me, looking in need is the worst thing you can possibly do!

You should also occasionally flirt with her in a funny way. For example, find the cheapest and cheesiest pick up line on the internet and send it to her but then immediately come back telling her that you knew how cheesy that was. You can also send her funny pics and emojis if you think it’s safe to take that route. You don’t want to seem like all you do is surf online though so don’t send too many pics or memes.

Another approach is to share a funny story you have experienced and if you have pics of it feel free to send them her way. You can also make up a funny story but we don’t recommend doing that because there is always a chance she might find the truth later.

If you go to work every day, you can message her something funny that happened that day that will cheer her day. If you do it well, she will be into you and will appropriately respond. If she starts responding to your text messages every time you text her, you will know that you have won the texting battle. Your job at that point is to line up a time and place to go on a date.

From there on out it’s a matter of trying to get her to fuck you! One final thing I want to stress is that you should never text a milf a picture of your dick unless she asks for it! Things can go really south if you do and she doesn’t welcome it.

Verdict: Texting A Milf Is Easy

See, texting a milf is pretty much simple. If you’re looking to text and connect in hopes of eventually meeting in person, then these tips are all that you need. Don’t be afraid to bust out a funny story or two as I’ve suggested above. Things are likely to go well if you simply take my advice.

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How To Have A Successful NSA Relationship With A Milf

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I love having NSA relationships with as many people as I can. It’s something that’s fun and it literally makes dating a whole heck fo a lot easier when you’re only in it for the sex. If you’re dating a milf and you want to have an NSA relationship with them, then I suggest you check out some of the tips I’ve provided below.

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NSA Relationship Rules With A Milf

Here are a few rules that you must follow if you want to have an NSA relationship with a super sexy milf.

Be Open and Honest
This might be the most important tip I can share with you. You’ve got to be absolutely open with one another and honest. If you’re not, things could take a turn for the worst. It’s not all that uncommon for someone to start dating a hot milf and lie to them. I always believe that honesty is the best policy when it comes to dating.

Be Specific
If you’re trying to get into a no string attached relationship with some horny mature woman, make sure you’re specific with her about what it is that you want. She’ll likely want the same and you’ll both be each others go to partners for sex and that’s it. But in order to make that happen, you need to be specific with the milf you’re dating.

Make Sure It’s Mutual
It’s important that both parties realize that they each want something similar. In this case, you need to each just want to fuck each other and go on with your normal lives. If one person isn’t down with that, then you’re going to find yourself in a bad situation and eventually not getting laid.

Control Your Feelings
It’s important that you not let your feelings get the best of you. That means, not getting emotional or upset if you find out the milf you’re dating is having sex with someone else. Just don’t do it! You’ll ruin things with the milf and that will be the end of it for you.

Well, it doesn’t get any clearer than that right! I love having these NSA relationships with milfs I meet online. Most are down for this type of thing and it’s awesome to have these types of relationships developed with the women. Try and get a few going yourself. You won’t be sorry I promise! In fact, I suggest that you join Milfplay if you’re not already a member. There are plenty of women looking to only bang on the site.